Tuesday 11 November 2014

Who Is Your Perfect Match?

Are you hitting the bull-eye? Or are you picking up your clothes and heels off the floor while sneaking out the back door before he wakes up?

Disclaimer-This is just for fun purposes- nothing to be taken seriously.

As for the woman species, we are all different individuals. God or the universe decided to create us women with more than 50% of complicity almost like a quest to be resolved by one special knight. According my background knowledge and based on my group of girlfriends; I have picked out three specific types of girls and what kind of guy each of you need to keep an eye for?

'Qute' Quiet Girls

Now ladies, there are nothing wrong with being the Quiet Ones- this is starting to sound quite scary no? Haha. This means you are more on the observant side, which means men should be more careful and alarmed with you. You all know what I mean by 'observant'- every little and small details will be picked up for e.g the non verbal communication: Body Language (this is BIG)- not that type of "big" you are thinking of, naughty! As the quote goes "silent but deadly"- haha I'm sure it is totally appropriate to quote this and it fit the situation perfectly.
Now, the type of guy that you would want to be with is The One who is not always in your face with their big gob- always talking and talking and talking or chewing- but you also definitely do not want a quiet one. Major Clash. Your Guy would be one who picks up well on instincts more than just vibes and signals. He would be understanding of how you are on the inside, not always pushing the buttons but also knows how to get you to break the silence at the right times and take to the highest heights something new each time. *winks* 

Miss-Know-It-All  

Right 'Missy', straight up girl you do not have time for 'timewasters'. A good, honest and straightforward man is that you have to have. "Ain't nobody got time" to set out gameboards and roll the dices. Cut the Crap. "I own the game" This is your thought right now, yes? As a miss-know-it-all, you want straightforward answers with no double meanings. For e.g when you ask your 'perfect match': "where would you like to eat tonight babe?" his answer needs to be, without hesitation, "that new italian restaurant that just opened last month, I've read good reviews and booked us a table at 8". No fuss. A man who likes to take the burden off your shoulders unexpectedly. Let's face it, when deciding where to dine can be tricky and very time consuming despite knowing quite a lot about pretty much everything, it is nice for someone else to take control and surprises you as well as matching up to you.

'Angelica' Chica

Girl, get ready to bring on the battle "good vs bad". As much you want to deny it, you know you like a full on "bad boy". The saying: "opposites attracts"- haha. One who can take you to cloud nine where you really belong then suddenly grabs your hands, pulls you closer and jumps off while kissing you. The adrenaline rush-oh yeah. Though, with that being said, you have to have a "bad boy" residing in an actual man. This is the real world, you can't always be on cloud nine. He has to be able to put in a balanced amount of efforts in the relationship. No slackers, No prison visits, No good-for-nothing is needed for you Chica.

If I have missed out on the types of girls or I may have mismatched, leave a comment below and let me know. Thanks for reading, until next time... Shameema